Do you ever feel trapped by how you define yourself, or worse, how others define you ? Ever think that things are just the way they are, that there is nothing that you can do about it or that it will never change? Or if it does change, it will not be soon enough? Have you ever done something you were ashamed of or thought was stupid, and then tried to explain that behavior by saying something else stupid-sounding like: “That’s just the way I am.”? UGH!!! IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE THAT WAY! You are in charge of how you are, no one else. You can change into a person that behaves, responds and lives their life in alignment with who you want to be. Change is always happening.
We see the impact of negative or catastrophic life-altering changes. We are fed them through the media all the time. But there’s a quiet, easier counterpart to that kind of change that we tend to forget about. That change is happening all the time around us, but because it is not threatening or negative (news) we somehow overlook it. The acoholic joins AA. The bullied kid stands up (and gets some back up to stand with them). The abused women says no more. The wounded walks against all odds, and then learns to run again. It starts with a decision to bail or turn away from who they thought or were told they were. Llittle by little, they turn their whole life around. She goes back to school, he impresses the boss who gives him a raise, she starts a business, or he writes that book that was always there in him. Just by doing what they feel they needed to do, they become a huge asset to their community–our community.
In this day and age of fear, manipulation, over-functioning, multi-tasking, and busy-ness, it seems as if our lot in life is fixed–unchangable and perhaps even rigged. That the world can only be changed through drastic circumstances or events. Well, that just ain’t so! You have what it takes to literally change your world. You’ve just–for the most part, forgotten how or maybe misplaced a couple of tools that would make the job much easier. Together, we’re going to round up those tools, remind you of how to use them, and construct a world that you have only dreamed of before.
It’s more than just a possiblity. It is your destiny to make your life into the dream you’ve always wanted. You’ve got this–if you want it bad enough. It’s not so much the how. There are enough resources available now to everyone–at least in this country, to figure that out. It’s truly a matter of having a strong enough “WHY”. I’ll help you get solid with that.
Yes. It will take work. Yes. It will involve facing your challenges that have been holding you back from who you could be. But let’s face it. Isn’t that pretty much what you’ve always done before to get something you wanted? This is really no different. What is different is the direction, perhaps. But there isn’t one person who cannot do this. The only requirement right now is WILLINGNESS.
Are you willing to do what it takes? To be honest with yourself? To just be willing to look at things–if only for a minute or two, differently. All of us on this planet have only 24 hours each day to be, have and do what we want. Yet, some people live way better than you. They have a good relationships. They have a meaningful, fulfilling career, a family or network of great friends. They are happy most of the time. And no, of course they aren’t perfect. Yet in some areas, they just rock. It’s only because they see things differently. They do things differently because of that. And then, they live differently.
I’ll be the first to admit that this transformation or a return to your authentic powerful self may not be a cakewalk, for sure. Henry Ford’s quote: “Thinking is one of the hardest things there is. That’s why so few people do it,” certainly applies today in our world. You don’t have to be an Einstein, a Sigmond Freud, Warren Buffet, or some superstar to have a super life. You just have to be you. When you learn how powerful that is, your life will start to change. I can help you with that.